By Max Mangelli
Finding her spot
Yes you read it correctly, the G-Spot Orgasm, and the secrets behind getting her there. When it comes to pleasuring a female, men don’t exactly have their work cut out for them. Every woman is different. Just because a man can find one females ‘spot’, it doesn’t mean that he will be able to obtain the same reaction from another woman, in that very spot.
There are different types of Orgasms; this is known by most adults. The G-Spot Orgasm is different than an Orgasm achieved by stimulating the Clitoris.
Let’s go over the G-Spot. The G-Spot (Grafenberg Spot) is located halfway between the back of her pubic bone and the front of her cervix, along the course of her urethra and her bladder where the cervix meets with the urethra. If you are searching for her G-Spot before proper stimulation, it will feel like a bean. In the heat of the moment the G-Spot swells, to up to 3 times its un-stimulated size. It is not suggested that you go on the conquest to locate her spot, until she is stimulated (This means; kiss; make out, rub, massage, or whatever you need to do to get her excited). Size and exact location varies from woman to woman. You could ask her to guide you in the correct direction, but many women are no more familiar to their G Spot location than a man is.
When attempting to stimulate her G-Spot, be firm and apply pressure. Find your rhythm, and move with her body as one, not against her movements. A G-Spot orgasm is reached by the repetitive, moments of friction, (brief repetitive moments of friction); if you don’t have a rhythm to your movements, you won’t be able to get her where she wants to be.
If you are a woman and have never experienced a G Spot Orgasm, I have a few suggestions to help you achieve one. First, if they are lost, you need to guide your partner to where you want them to be (if you know where you want them to be). If you don’t feel comfortable guiding and talking about your sex life and what turns you on and/or doesn’t turn you on, don’t expect a miracle or for him to figure you out any time soon. Sorry, but it's the truth. You need to let him know what is working.
Don’t be alarmed if you feel as if you have full bladder (you have to pee) as you approach orgasm. This is normal. The intensity and pressure (the climb to climax) of the G-Spot Orgasm last a longer than an orgasm achieved by clitoral stimulation, which is the reason for that full bladder feeling. The female ejaculation, which is a clear or whitish fluid, is different when achieved through stimulation of the G-Spot, opposed to that of one which is achieved through stimulation of the Clitoris.
Boys, if you can’t find it on your own and she can't give you guided directions to her destination spot, here are some tips;
You will probably have more success using your fingers than your penis. Position wise, ‘doggy style’ is the most successful position; you can also have her rotate her pelvis upward while she is lying on her stomach with her legs spread apart.
Two fingers are better than one, so using two fingers from one hand firmly apply pressure within her vagina keeping the palm of your hand down. With the other hand, gently apply pressure to her abdomen around the area of her pubic hairline (or where it would be if she did have a pubic hairline). Once you find it massage it gently, keeping your palm down. She will begin to tighten and twitch (inside & hopefully outside) as an orgasm approaches. Don't stop the massaging, punch it up a notch. Still keep in gentle, but use quicker strokes to build that effect caused by the friction.
Back to positions, once again, doggy style is the most successful. Her head should stay low, and her butt high. Again- find your rhythm, without it she won't be pleased. It is brief repetitive motions which result in the friction of your parts and her parts that build up to her ultimate climax. In this position, your penis should hit her G-Spot.
Not in the mood for Doggy Style or if you want to watch her face as she orgasms. Have her lay on her back, with her butt along with her lower back raised up. You will have to help support her. Her legs should be bent so her knees are pressing on her breasts. A good place to put your hands and help support her is behind her knees (gripping her legs and holding them/pressing them against her breast). Be firm, but not rough as you penetrate her.
Last but not least, if she would rather be the one on top, and keep you in the submissive position, try this one on. The male needs to lie flat on his back with legs extended but not spread apart. The woman should then straddle the man with her legs kept on the outside (she is straddling). Ladies face his feet; this means that your back is what is facing him, not your breasts. His penis should find your G-Spot easily from this position. In this position, ladies do more work than the other two. So if you want to lay back and relax and absorb all the sensations without working-don't do this one.
Hopefully this helps find a few women out there, a G-Spot stimulated orgasm. Good luck and Happy Humping…